Reason Kills Substance
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Reason kills substance Everything in life Has to be experienced Authentically For the sake of experiencing it If you try to experience anything For any other reason Other than for just what it is Then the experience of it Won’t be as good Think about anything Let’s take marriage You get married to somebody Because you want to live with this person Forever You want to experience him or her As long as it can last This fun experience You do not experience marriage Because you are married It doesn’t work like that You want to experience love Because love happened Not because you wanted to experience Falling in love You want to experience Having a child Not experience children Because you have them It doesn’t work like that You cannot have a reason To experience something Except for experiencing it Because of what it is What in life are you doing it in reverse? Think about this Peace ✌🏽
Shalini’s reflection feels like a gentle reminder to return to the heart of experience. It’s not trying to teach it’s trying to awaken. Her words speak to something deeply human: the way we often chase meaning with logic, forgetting that life is meant to be felt, not calculated. Love, marriage, parenthood they lose their magic when reduced to reasons. She invites us to live for the moment itself, not for what it might prove or promise. There’s a quiet wisdom in her tone, a softness that says: stop justifying, start feeling. It’s not about doing things right. It’s about doing them real.
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