Ghosting: What To Do When Somebody Ghosts You
Don’t overlook the Trash Can
What would you do when you stepped on a piece of Lego in the living room floor and it caused you to shriek in silence? You look down at it in pity and pick it up and put it away carefully so it won’t hurt another family member like it did you!
You can use the same logic when somebody decides to ghost you. You look at him/her with pity and pick them up and throw them into the trash can; never to be responded to again no matter who it is! They don’t deserve you when they don’t know how to respect you!
Don’t ever give them an ear no matter how tempting it is to do that unless you know you are wise enough to understand their tricks at confounding you. They do not belong to you. They should be treated like a little sibling who should not be attended to because they will whine and make a fuss and throw tantrums next if you do.
If you do let them in because you’re madly in love with them, for example, the ghosting will continue and become longer and stronger in intensity and result in more heartbreaks and sorrows unnecessarily for you.
Be warned! Protect your heart. Protect your soul. Do everything you can to avoid the ghost. And just let them go to their own graves. It’s not your time for this. Your time is to invest in what is best for you at that moment and usually there’s something else waiting in queue for you calling on you for your attention.
Think about this!
Peace ✌🏽
Great advice, Shalini. Wise words 🩷