Difference between Romance and Sex

Emotional investment

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When you feel romantic, you feel with your heart 
When you feel lust, you feel with your body
Romance can lead to sex, eventually 
But sex may not lead to romance at all

So give your body only to the one who is able to capture your heart 
Only to the one who is able to hold it in place 
long enough for you to let go of your body also to him 

Don’t do it any other way if you want to have a long term relationship 
Perhaps life long relationship as well

Only the one who is able to understand you and move in with you emotionally 
will be able to hold you long and strong in bondage with him passionately 

If you can’t understand this, I don’t know how to explain further 
Love you all 
Peace ✌🏽 

If you give away your body early on, 
you let go of the opportunity to understand him properly
He might not at all be interested in being  your friend first
All he might be interested in 
might be just to have a warm body next to him 
for when he needs to satisfy his appetite for sex

And if you’re okay with that then peace to you
But if not, 
you had better learn this right now 
before it’s too late 
and you have wasted all your life 
trying to get him to understand you 

Be blessed 
Be broken
Be chill 
Be enchanted with life

Be ridiculous
Be funny 
Don’t take life too seriously 
Just enjoy 

But be warned
Not all men are emotionally strong 
And if that’s ok with you 
Peace to you 

But if not, 
Be warned 
And keep your cool
By staying composed
And don’t let anybody touch you 
Who hasn’t touched your soul first 

By being there for you when you needed him the most 
That’s the way it should be to a woman’s heart
When you deserve the best, you should know that 
Now think about this!

Peace ✌🏽 

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